sometimes you need to be selfish to prevent from being hurt.

such a stumbling statement. why on earth did it put it up? anw. yea.. i shall leave it here.. it shld b safe..

oh n i think i figured out the problem to the previous post.. maybe its called confidence in yourself? like when A is down, B would think what has B done that could have affected A, but when B is down, A would think maybe A is stress or something. maybe like wad mavis said. "not everything is about you". but then again, if you think twice, what if it is really about you, and you would never know about it but end up hurting the person even more. hmm.. complicated issue eh.. heheh.